Tuesday, November 13, 2012

the simple blessings of Christmas - already?

Christmas blessings devotions gift book
No - this isn't another article on how early Christmas decorations go up in retail settings.

I would like to give a quick promo to a book of 31 Christmas devotions I wrote a couple years ago. If you want a book of daily readings that focuses on the Advent season, this might be just what you are looking for.

And I would quickly add it has sold out the last two years by the end of November. I'm not confident it will be available to order in December.

It is available directly from Simple Truths, the publisher (a free gift card is included if sending as a gift), as well as Amazon and other online retailers.

Click HERE to enjoy a short inspirational "movie" that is on a DVD included in the book.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

stay strong sean!

Friends of Sean Karl shave their heads as a symbol of love and support while he undergoes chemotherapy.
My son Zach and a group of his Ravenwood High School buddies met on our back porch this week to shave their heads as a sign of love and support for their classmate and great friend, Sean Karl, who is undergoing chemotherapy treatments.

Sean is a star tennis player who has won the last three state AAA championships and is committed to play for University of Tennessee tennis team.

A Facebook page, Pray for Sean Karl, has been created to show support. Sean was recently received a message of encouragement on youtube from the world's top tennis player, Roger Federer.

Stay strong - and I know the guys would have loved if you could been there for the head shaving festivities!



Tuesday, November 6, 2012

first time to vote

This is my 10th time to vote in a presidential election, going back to Carter v. Ford. This is #1 for Zach. I'm proud he took the time to register and vote!

an 18-year-old votes in his first presidential election.

Thursday, November 1, 2012

PEFS - presidential election fatigue syndrome

My first year to vote in a presidential election was 1976 - Carter v. Ford. I was a freshman in college and stayed up most of the night - at least until coverage ended, which was probably two o'clock or so - back when there were three main channels and a couple fuzzy ones that required constant fiddling with the rabbit ears or that UHF loop in the middle.

I really enjoy presidential elections. In fact, Amy and I held watch parties for all three presidential candidate debates and the VP debate that was ... uh ... well ... unusual. (I say that will all respect and a really big smile.)

I'm not a news junkie as a rule - unless its football season - but I scan a couple subscriptions and read a blog or article or two most days of the week. But during a presidential election campaign I have one of the cable news channels on almost every night and read a couple articles every day. I love listening to the pundits parse every phrase and analyze poll updates. In detail.

The problem with this election, the 2012 Romney v. Obama election campaign, is that it has gone so long. The GOP nomination process was closely fought and lasted until June - that contest started in earnest more than a year ago with what seemed like a couple hundred debates. As long as the Republicans stayed in the news cycle, good or bad, the Democrats weren't going to be left out of the conversation and were running political ads as early as late winter and early spring - basically long enough to have a baby.

I love this stuff and I even know who is going to win the election and why. But I'm finally there. I am tired of the campaign and am ready for next Tuesday to get here. I officially have PEFS - presidential election fatigue syndrome.

I'll still watch coverage and stay up  too late tonight. And tomorrow night. The cure doesn't arrive until November 6. Well, actually sometime around three or four a.m. on the seventh!

Thursday, September 6, 2012

How the Irish Saved Civilization

How The Irish Saved Civilization by Thomas Cahill. Anchor Books.
In 406 A.D the Rhine River froze solid - and the barbarians crossed this temporary bridge to strike one of the final blows to a lazy, corrupt, and aging empire. When Alaric, king of the Visigoths, showed up at Rome's gates in 410 A.D., the citizens still didn't know the end was at hand. Unable to defend themselves - it was a lot of effort after all - they negotiated a "sack" to spare the city from bloodshed:
"So they kept their lives, most of them. But sooner or later they or their progeny lost almost everything else: titles, prosperity, way of life, learning: especially learning. A world in chaos is not a world in which books are copied and libraries are maintained. It is not the world where learned men have the leisure to become more learned."
While working through Gibbons' The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire for my nightstand reading, I realized I needed a shorter "boost" to keep going, so I decided to reread Thomas Cahill's much heralded work that shows the disappearance of learning, scholarship, and culture from the European Continent from the fall of Rome to rise of Charlemagne. All the great works of western civilization would have been lost were it not for the fact that as the Continent became illiterate, one small "unconquered people" at the edge of the Empire were just learning to read and write - with gusto. As peaceful Rome turned to chaos, chaotic Ireland grew more peaceful - the key word being more. Following the lead of their eclectic and passionately spiritual patron saint, St. Patrick, and his spiritual son, Columcille, they built centers of learning that not only drew visitors from the Continent, but sent a wave of missionaries that restored and returned the Greek, Roman, Christian and even "pagan" classic literature to Europe.

Just a fun note or two on Patrick. He was not actually Irish. He was a Briton - "almost Roman" - that was captured, enslaved and brutally mistreated by the Irish as a young boy. Following a vision from God - like King David he was a shepherd and solitude and deprivation turned his thoughts toward God - he escaped Ireland and received a seminary education. But his heart beat for Ireland. In one of history's unique footnotes, he became the first missionary since the Apostolic Age. Also, he didn't drive snakes out of Ireland, but he did curb the Irish passion for violence - curbing the passions of that day for hard drink and, um, ah, for a liberated sense of sexuality, is another matter. One of the reasons Patricus was so well received by his one-time tormentors was that he may have been the only man to stand up to the Irish of his century and say, "I am not afraid of you, I fear only God." That they liked and respected.

I'm only one in a long line of many to recommend Cahill's short, poetic, sometimes rambling, but always charming narrative that brings history to life.

Sunday, August 26, 2012

self promotion: I wanna talk about me

How many times can I work in a reference to Toby Keith's big hit, "I wanna talk about me"? Funny song and a great reminder straight from Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People - everyone wants to get a word in edge-wise. It also raises the question of self-promotion with people you know.
So when promoting your activities - particularly with friends - particularly in the social media age we live in - how much is too much? not enough? orjust right?
Be aware you will always get one of three responses:

  • Anything you say to promote yourself will be too much with some.
  • Others sincerely want to know what you're doing. 
  • Still more aren't going to notice anything you say anyway - so who cares?
Of course some argue the issue on moral grounds, pointing out that humility is a God ordained virtue and boasting is sinful. The counterpoint is that followers of God should be bold and believe in what they are doing; they ask the question, if you don't believe in yourself and what you're doing, who else should and will?

There is obviously no single answer. You can already read my mind on the topic. My typical response: the answer is yes and no, more and less.

Better go with your own comfort level, but know you can't control your intended responses no matter how careful or capricious you are. My simple counsel - as much a reminder to myself as a word to anyone else - is:

  1. keep a spirit of humility and sense of humor - your project is not the center of the universe or a matter of life and death for others - even if your cause is life and death.
  2. do not overdo it lest you become a nuisance - the rule of thumb for Facebook and other high relationship networks is three times a week; Twitter unlimited.
  3. same as general conversation, make sure you listen as much as you speak - do you know what others are up to?
  4. if you are on social media, at least in part, to promote something you are doing, be sure to return the favor to others.
  5. keep it "soft sell" as most people don't like to be pushed.